I absolutely agree with you Martin! Men are over diagnosed with NPD/Antisocial with women being overly diagnosed with BPD & Bipolar. That’s absolutely statistically true. But, I also think if you truly know yourself and you get other opinions from other professionals and document your behaviors…. If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck and maintains dysfunctional, toxic patterns in relationships like a duck… it might be a duck with BPD